Letters To A Much Younger Me: On Identity

Letters To A Much Younger Me: On Identity

Sign saying "This Is Who I Am"

Dear 18-year-old self:

It’s not your college degree or your grades that will define you.
It’s not your intelligence, either.
And it’s certainly not your paycheck or your wealth.

What defines you as a human, a professional, and a member of society are just two things that matter above all else:

  • your ACTIONS
  • and your WORDS

And what dictates your actions and your words?

  • your HABITS

Your HABITS are what define you as a human because they dictate your most high-frequency ACTIONS and WORDS.

So, I humbly suggest you ask yourself about your HABITS;

  • are they motivated by kindness and positivity? #Happy
  • are they constructive and conducive to continual improvement? #Humble
  • are they difficult to maintain and require investment? #Hungry

Those are the HABITs that make us better humans than the day before. Those are the HABITs that will define you. #BestTodayBetterTomorrow

Sincerely,

Your 48-year-old self.

Bassam
http://bassamsalem.com

Bassam is a tech executive and entrepreneur known for his interdisciplinary expertise and commitment to helping others. He founded AI company AtlasRTX (acquired in 2022) and now leads Mindshare Ventures, advising founders, executives, and teams. An Egyptian-American, he was raised in Egypt, France, England, and Utah; he holds CS degrees (BS, MS, MPhil) and an MBA from the University of Utah where he is now a Trustee. He is based in Utah, USA and writes, speaks, and advises on character & culture, leadership & excellence, and the long game.

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